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WomanOnTheEdge's avatar

Brilliant summary.

Whilst we all know how difficult it is to get through to those captured by a cult, that doesn't mean we should stop trying. Even if challenging the groupthink falls on wilfully deaf ears 999 times out of 1,000, it's still worth doing to plant the seed of doubt in the 1 person who hears. Nobody frees themselves instantly from a cult, doubts build over time and none of us can tell which challenge might be the one that tips the balance into rational, independent thought.

I'll keep a copy of this handy as a primer!

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Ute Heggen's avatar

As I collect the stories of trans widows, that is, women who divorced or are divorcing cross-dressing men, I've found patterns. There are patterns in the behavior of the men after their revelation or their wife's discovery which, in a small sample so far, include choking the wife, throwing objects or shoving such that the constabulary are called. The behavior prior to revelation or discovery includes exorbitant, secret spending, typically on attire and jewelry and additional security software for computers. These women are so silenced that I am their voice at Ute Heggen channel on youtube, and we choose a Shakespearean name, a vaguely familiar location and slightly changed ages for the children. The fear of this mob you write about here is the the reason. Meanwhile, thefts of women's luggage at airports appears to be increasing. Have our husbands been thieving as well?

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hpMYaq98AV0&t=1s

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